Saturday, September 15, 2018

Relationship Reflection


Relationship/partnership are important to me because I can remember as a child I would always come home and tell my Grandmother about all the friends I had at school. She would tell me that those were just my associates and that I only really had a few friends. I never really understood what she was telling me until I got older and understood the value of a friendships/relationships. I mentioned this story because it contributes to the reasons the why relationships/partnerships are important to me. Having a sense belonging and having a connection with others. They are there to provide a listening ear during good and bad times, provide encouragement, and be supportive.


Granny

She is always there to provide unconditional love and support. Gives her opinion about my life and the decisions (in love) I make. When I encounter hardships and discouragement, she always takes the time to pray for me. Nothing compares to a Grandmother’s love she provides me with everything. I am the woman I am today because of her.


The Girls

I have different relationships with both of them. Marni(right) is the crazy friend, and Neise (left) is the calm, rational one of the group. Together there is never a dull moment, and we always have a good time. Marni is in the military and understands the challenges I encounter being in the military. Niese is an educator, and girls track coach. Through my relationships with them, I connect with them on a personal and professional level. I seek out their advice and guidance about my current field of employment and my future field of education.
 
My Furbabies
Even though they are animals, I have an important relationship with them. It is fulfilling to come home from a long day at work to have them be happy and excited to see me. They provide an unjudgmental and unconditional love and affection. They only want a little but give so much back in return.    
 
My experiences through the different types of relationships/partnerships I strive to assess each of them to ensure they are having a positive impact in all aspects of my life. I believe that through my experiences with different partnerships in the military has greatly prepared me for being an effective early childhood professional. I constantly encounter various people from all different walks of life, and as a leader, I must learn about each person and know how to employ each of their skills and abilities to accomplish missions. As an early childhood educator, I will be charged with learning about each of my students and know how to teach in order to reach of their learning abilities.     
 
 

3 comments:

  1. Great post! I like your grandmother's comment "those are just associates". I definitely think that is a good term for our "friends" we have as very young children in elementary school. Those "friends" really haven't been around enough to prove their worth. You definitely learn who your friends are as you go through life; especially when you are down. True friendships last through ups and downs and often can be picked up where they are left off no matter how much time has passed. It is great that your Grandmother was around to teach you all those life lessons. And thank you for your service to our country!

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  2. Great post! I like your grandmother's comment "those are just associates". I definitely think that is a good term for our "friends" we have as very young children in elementary school. Those "friends" really haven't been around enough to prove their worth. You definitely learn who your friends are as you go through life; especially when you are down. True friendships last through ups and downs and often can be picked up where they are left off no matter how much time has passed. It is great that your Grandmother was around to teach you all those life lessons. And thank you for your service to our country!

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  3. Hello Ashley!

    I think that it is wonderful that you have friendships with individuals that you can connect with on a personal level as well as a professional level. Having at least on healthy relationship within all aspects of your life creates a great support system for you. Thank for sharing such a detailed description of your relationship with your grandmother. Grandmothers provide us with the utmost wisdom!!! Like you I value the relationship and advice that my grandmother shared with me when she was here. Fantastic post!!!

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